Presently almost the aspiration to simplification of many conventions ordered to all-civil etiquette is everywhere noted. It is one of signs of the times: the rates of life which changed and continuing to change quickly socially living conditions in the strongest way influence etiquette. Therefore, there is a lot of from this that was accepted at the beginning or the middle of our century, can seem to the absurd now. Nevertheless, the main, best traditions of all-civil etiquette, even having changed in a form, remain to live on the spirit. Ease, naturalness, sense of proportion, politeness, tactfulness, and, above all benevolence in relation to people, - here qualities which smoothly will help with any life situations, even then, when you are not familiar with any small rules of all-civil etiquette which there is on Earth a great variety.
Indispensable condition of communication is sensitivity. Sensitivity should not be excessive, turn into flattery, bring to anything to unjustified praise seen or heard. It is not necessary to hide strenuously that you for the first time see something, listen, taste, being afraid that otherwise you will consider as the ignoramus.
It is necessary to call a title of everyone to whom talk. If the title is unknown, it is possible to address so: "Herr Doctor!". The word the doctor is not reserved as at us only for physicians, and it is used anyway at the indication of specialty or a profession.
One of the basic principles of modern life is maintenance of normal human relations and aspiration to avoid the conflicts. In turn the respect and attention can be deserved only at observance of politeness and restraint. Therefore to be appreciated nothing by the people surrounding us so expensively, as politeness and sensitivity. But in life we quite often should face roughness, sharpness, disrespect for the identity of other person. The reason here that we underestimate culture of behavior of the person, his manners.